Your Thanksgiving Turkey Guide

Hosting Thanksgiving or Friendsgiving? Start with the centerpiece and build from there. From turkey and ham to sides and next-day sandwiches, GRILLHOUSE has your table covered.

Step 1 — Find your Thanksgiving centerpiece Step 1 — Choose your centerpiece

Choose your
centerpiece
Turkey or
ham?

Choose a whole turkey if you want the classic centerpiece and a mix of white and dark meat. A turkey breast suits a smaller table that prefers white meat. A fully cooked ham is a good fit when you want a centerpiece with less raw-meat preparation.

Serving both? Plan them together so you don’t accidentally buy two full dinners.

Our organic pick

Mary’s Organic Fresh Whole Turkey.

For hosts who want an organic whole turkey to season their own way, Mary’s is our pick at Grill House. An organic whole turkey with a simple ingredient list, ready to season your way.

Keep in mind:

Allow time for seasoning, roasting, and carving.

Available size ranges:

10–12 lb · 12–14 lb · 14–16 lb · 16–20 lb · 20–24 lb. with options for different guest counts and leftover plans.

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Mary’s organic fresh whole turkey, raw

A pre-brined classic

Butterball Fresh Whole Turkey.

For hosts who want a traditional whole turkey with the brining already handled. A classic whole turkey, pre-brined and ready for your favorite finishing touches.

Keep in mind:

Already contains salt and seasoning, so season accordingly.

Roasted Butterball whole turkey

A smaller table, less prep

Diestel Cook-in-Bag Holiday Breast Roast.

For a smaller gathering that prefers white meat, Diestel’s boneless breast roast keeps preparation straightforward. A boneless, seasoned turkey breast made for smaller gatherings and easier prep.

Keep in mind:

Requires cooking and offers white meat only.

Sliced Diestel turkey breast roast

An easy-to-serve ham

Honey Baked Ham — Bone-In Half.

For the guests who always reach for ham, HoneyBaked’s bone-in half is a convenient holiday option. Fully cooked and spiral-cut for easy serving and less holiday prep.

Keep in mind:

Serving turkey too? Split your portions between both.

Spiral-cut honey baked ham

Step 2 — Compare your options

How does Mary’s compare?

Four options. Different needs. Here’s how they compare.

Why we’re choosing Mary’s

Organic. Whole bird. Season it your way.

Three details to check before you buy

Turkey

Fresh or frozen

Fresh for near-term cooking. Frozen for planning ahead.

Turkey

Organic

Look for certified organic labeling.

Turkey

Added seasoning

Check the ingredients before adding salt or brine.

Ham details to consider

Ham

Bone-in or boneless

Bone-in for presentation. Boneless for easy slicing.

Ham

Spiral-sliced or unsliced

Spiral for convenience. Unsliced for thicker cuts.

Premium turkey for your dinner

A great Thanksgiving starts with a great bird. We source turkeys with the same standards we bring to everything behind our counter: quality you can see, flavor you can taste, and sourcing you can trust. Carefully selected, properly handled, and ready to earn the center of the table.

Grillhouse Thanksgiving

Step 3 — Buy enough for your table

How much turkey
per person?

Start with your guest count, then decide whether you want enough for dinner or extra for the holiday weekend.

1.5 lb

per person

Dinner + leftovers

1 lb

per person

Dinner only

Guests Dinner only Dinner with leftovers
6 Guests6 lb9 lb
8 Guests8 lb12 lb
10 Guests10 lb15 lb
12 Guests12 lb18 lb
16 Guests16 lb24 lb
Next-day turkey sandwich with stuffing and cranberry sauce
Generous portions mean the next-day sandwich experiments are secured.

Buying ham or serving both?

Use the ham's specific serving guidance: a bone-in ham and a boneless ham do not provide the same amount of meat at the same weight.

If you're serving turkey and ham, don't apply a full main-course allowance to each. Tell us your guest count, which protein your guests prefer, and whether you want leftovers so we can help you choose quantities.

Step 4 — Know when and where to buy

When to buy
your turkey

The best time to reserve your turkey and the best time to bring it home are different.

If you want a particular product or size, check seasonal ordering details early. Then schedule your purchase or pickup around whether the turkey is fresh or frozen—and when you'll cook it.

  1. 01

    Reserve early

    Recommended: Mid-October

    Guarantee your preferred size and weight range. High-demand heritage birds, organic options, always sell out first.

  2. 02

    Schedule pickup

    Recommended: Nov 23 - Nov 25

    Fresh turkeys are highly perishable and should only be picked up 1-2 days before cooking. Frozen birds offer more storage flexibility if you have the freezer room.

  3. 03

    Plan for thaw time

    Allow: 2 - 5 days in fridge

    Never cook a partially frozen bird. Plan for exactly 24 hours of refrigerator thawing for every 4-5 pounds of turkey weight.

Step 5 — Plan your Thanksgiving or Friendsgiving

How to plan a
Thanksgiving dinner
you can enjoy hosting
Host
Thanks­giving
your way

Choose your centerpiece first, then build the menu around what your kitchen can handle. Decide what you'll cook, buy, or ask guests to bring.

Planning checklist:

  1. 01

    2-3 weeks before

    Lock it in

    Confirm guests, dietary needs, budget, centerpiece, and potluck assignments.

  2. 02

    1 week before

    Get organized

    Finalize the menu and shopping list. Check refrigerator space, serving dishes, thermometer, and oven capacity.

  3. 03

    1-2 days before

    Get ahead

    Pick up the fresh turkey, prepare make-ahead dishes, set the table, and confirm what guests are bringing.

  4. 04

    The day

    Time it right

    Work backward from serving time and allow time for cooking, resting, carving, and reheating.

Step 6 — Recipes and inspiration

Thanks­giving recipes
worth building your
menu around

Start with one centerpiece, then add a creamy side, something roasted, and something fresh or tart.

Herb-butter roast turkey in a cast iron pan

Herb-butter
roast turkey

Butter, garlic, rosemary, and thyme bring familiar flavor to a golden roast turkey.

Maple-dijon glazed ham on a platter

Maple-dijon
glazed ham

Maple and Dijon create a sweet, savory glaze for ham, mashed potatoes, and dinner rolls.

Step 7 — Give leftovers a plan

Thanks­giving
leftovers worth
saving room for

A crispy turkey torta. Ham sliders with a little sweet heat. A grilled cheese with black truffle cheddar. Save a few slices from dinner—tomorrow has plans.

Turkey torta, hot honey ham sliders and a truffle turkey melt on a linen table

Three ways into Friday

Bring the plan
to the table

Thanks­giving
FAQs

Is turkey or ham better for Thanksgiving?

It depends on your table. Choose a whole turkey if you want the classic centerpiece and a mix of white and dark meat. A fully cooked ham is a good fit when you want a centerpiece with less raw-meat preparation. Serving both? Plan them together so you don’t accidentally buy two full dinners.

What turkey is best for a small Thanksgiving?

A turkey breast suits a smaller table that prefers white meat. A boneless, seasoned breast roast like the Diestel Cook-in-Bag Holiday Breast Roast is made for smaller gatherings and easier prep. Prefer a whole bird? Start with the smallest size range, 10–12 lb.

When should I buy a fresh turkey?

Reserve early—mid-October is recommended—to guarantee your preferred size and weight range. Fresh turkeys are highly perishable and should only be picked up 1-2 days before cooking.

How much whole turkey should I buy?

Plan 1 lb per person for dinner only, or 1.5 lb per person if you want leftovers. For 8 guests, that’s 8 lb for dinner only or 12 lb for dinner with leftovers.

Can I serve turkey and ham together?

Yes. If you're serving turkey and ham, don't apply a full main-course allowance to each. Tell us your guest count, which protein your guests prefer, and whether you want leftovers so we can help you choose quantities.

How do I organize a Friendsgiving potluck?

Choose your centerpiece first, then decide what you'll cook, buy, or ask guests to bring. Two to three weeks before, confirm guests, dietary needs, budget, centerpiece, and potluck assignments. One to two days before, confirm what guests are bringing.

GH — Happy Thanksgiving